A Bespoke Big Band Wedding Song
- Robert McCullough
- Dec 18
- 3 min read
Robert & Charlotte’s Personalised Love Song, - “That’s Why”
When Robert and Charlotte began planning their wedding in Stamford (Lincolnshire) they knew they wanted to do things differently.
Rather than standing up to deliver traditional speeches, they chose a far more personal approach - commissioning a bespoke wedding song that would express their love for one another in a way words alone never quite could.
The result was “That’s Why” - a fully personalised wedding song that became one of the most memorable moments of their entire day.
Choosing a Personalised Wedding Song Instead of Speeches
Public speaking can be daunting, even for the most confident couples. Robert and Charlotte loved the idea of sharing their feelings openly, but without the nerves, formality, and pressure that often come with wedding speeches.
A personalised wedding song allowed them to:
Speak directly to each other through music
Share their story in a heartfelt, creative way
Give their guests a moment they wouldn’t forget
Create a lasting keepsake beyond the wedding day
Rather than explaining their love story, they let the song do the talking.
Honouring Charlotte’s Grandad Through Big Band Music
During our early conversations, Charlotte shared her personal connection to Big Band music. Her grandad, Terry, had always been a huge presence in her life - and a passionate lover of big band and swing music. Artists like Frank Sinatra and Tony Bennett were a constant soundtrack in her childhood, often playing while they spent time together. It felt only right that their bespoke wedding song should honour that connection.
“That’s Why” was written and arranged in a classic big band style, capturing the warmth, elegance, and timeless feel of the music Terry loved - a subtle but powerful tribute woven into the heart of the wedding day.
Writing “That’s Why” - A Song Built From Their Love Story
Every bespoke wedding song begins with listening. We spent time getting to know Robert and Charlotte’s story - how they met, what they admire in each other, the moments that shaped their relationship, and what they wanted to say but didn’t want to stand and recite.
The lyrics were crafted to feel natural and sincere - like a private conversation set to music - while the big band arrangement gave the song a sense of occasion worthy of the moment.
Studio Production With Quality - A Careful Balance Between Quality & Cost
Big band music is wonderfully rich and expressive, but recording a full live ensemble can quickly push production costs higher than many couples expect.
To keep the song exceptional without becoming unnecessarily expensive, we took a carefully considered approach:
Key parts were recorded using live instruments to capture warmth and authenticity
Additional layers were created using high-quality digital software (industry standard) instrumentation to complete the sound
This hybrid method allowed us to deliver a full, swinging big band arrangement while keeping the studio session costs sensible and transparent for the couple.
The result was a polished, luxurious sound - without an inflated studio bill. Click here to listen to the results.
A Highlight Moment - Requested Twice on the Wedding Day
The impact of “That’s Why” went far beyond its first play. After being shared earlier in the day, the wedding party specifically requested that the song be played again during the evening celebration.
For Robert and Charlotte, this second play transformed the song from a special moment into a defining highlight of their wedding day - one that guests connected with, remembered, and wanted to experience again.
A Song That Lives Beyond the Wedding Day
Long after the final dance and last glass of champagne, “That’s Why” remains.
It’s a piece of music that:
Captures their relationship honestly
Honours family, memory, and legacy
Can be revisited on anniversaries and quiet evenings
Will always take them back to how that day felt
That is the true power of a bespoke wedding song!
Considering a Bespoke Wedding Song?
Robert and Charlotte’s wedding in Stamford( Lincolnshire) is a beautiful example of how a personalised wedding song can replace tradition with something deeply meaningful.
At The Wedding Songsmith, each song is written from scratch - shaped around your story, your people, and your day - with care taken at every stage, from writing to production.Because your wedding deserves more than background music.
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